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Acedia & Me: A Marriage, Monks, and a Writer's Life

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Kathleen Norris’s masterpiece: a personal and moving memoir that resurrects the ancient term acedia, or soul-weariness, and brilliantly explores its relevancy to the modern individual and culture.

Kathleen Norris had written several much loved books, yet she couldn’t drag herself out of bed in the morning, couldn’t summon the energy for daily tasks. Even as she struggled, Norris recognized her familiar battle with acedia. She had discovered the word in an early Church text when she was in her thirties. Having endured times of deep soul-weariness since she was a teenager, she immediately recognized that this passage described her affliction: sinking into a state of being unable to care. Fascinated by this “noonday demon,” so familiar to those in the early and medieval Church, Norris read intensively and knew she must restore this forgotten but utterly relevant and important concept to the modern world’s vernacular.

Like Norris’s bestselling The Cloister Walk, Acedia & me is part memoir and part meditation. As in her bestselling Amazing Grace, here Norris explicates and demystifies a spiritual concept, exploring acedia through the geography of her life as a writer; her marriage and the challenges of commitment in the midst of grave illness; and her keen interest in the monastic tradition. Unlike her earlier books, this one features a poignant narrative throughout of Norris’s and her husband’s bouts with acedia and its clinical cousin, depression. Moreover, her analysis of acedia reveals its burden not just on individuals but on whole societies— and that the “restless boredom, frantic escapism, commitment phobia, and enervating despair that we struggle with today are the ancient demon of acedia in modern dress.”

An examination of acedia in the light of theology, psychology, monastic spirituality, the healing powers of religious practice, and Norris’s own experience, Acedia & me is both intimate and historically sweeping, brimming with exasperation and reverence, sometimes funny, often provocative, and always important.

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Author: Kathleen Norris
Hardcover: 352 pages
Publisher: Riverhead Hardcover
Publication Date: September 16, 2008
Language: English
ISBN: 1594489963
Package Length: 8.3 inches
Package Width: 5.8 inches
Package Height: 1.4 inches
Package Weight: 0.9 pounds
Average Customer Rating: based on 51 reviews
 
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2Aimless and overwritten  Sep 05, 2009
I'm an avid reader of Ms. Norris' work, but this one suffers from far too many digressions, citations of the writing of others, and rather turgid prose. I feel that the book might have attempted a healing attitude toward acedia, not becoming part of its cause. A disappointment for me.

5a lovely meditation  Aug 30, 2009
A meditative walk through Norris's struggles with acedia, her husband's depression, the spiritual and writing life. I think the distinction she tries to draw between acedia and depression is not at all clear (and perhaps not tenable), but lovely writing, and food for thought.

4The devil you know  Jul 29, 2009
"Would a more steadfast spirit deaden me, somehow, or at least dampen the writer in me? This up and down, unsteadfast person is who I am; this is the devil I know."

Norris writes about the complicated nature of being human, of the eternal struggle between right and wrong, happiness and sadness. Being human requires constantly making decisions, but there are also moments when our minds take us by surprise, choosing for us on impulse. It's these impulsive thoughts we must work hard to reform, to rework negative thoughts into something, anything positive. Sometimes doing work helps, sometimes prayer, and sometimes the strength of our will along with faith - if a person has it.

It is so easy to fall into despair, so comfortable to fall in with the "noonday demon," wondering why anything is worthwhile and what, if anything, it all means. While not everyone experiencing depression can shed it by use of will alone - and Norris never claims there are not circumstances in which drug and talk therapy are essential - she speaks about ways in which those who experience less severe bouts can lift their spirits. In her case, her deep faith sustains her, but even she falls, proving her humanity.

No one who hasn't been through these same struggles, with the benefit of the wisdom of a lifetime, could have written such a gorgeously realized book. Any author less educated, and less in tune with her own spirituality, could never have managed to create such a piece of art. Her writing is brilliant, though the book, as some have said, may be longer than it really needed to be. Some points were repeated a few times, I agree. But that in no way diminishes the high literary quality of the book. There are times we need to hear things more than once, in order for them to sink in. I suspect Norris is fully aware of that.

I enjoyed the book, finding much reassurance in its pages despite my own lack of abiding faith in a higher power. Norris writes well about subjects ranging from marriage, to spirituality, to what it means to be a creative, seeking soul. There is much hope in her prose, and never a time humanity couldn't use a whole lot of that.

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1Must be an intellual to enjoy!  May 21, 2009
This book is very slow going. I am by no means a dummy or slow learner, but find this book tedious. Only have read four chapters and can only tell you that the "monks" have a hard time with depression because their daily routines are monotonous.

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4Slogging with acedia...  Mar 31, 2009
Acedia, accidie...you may never have heard the word, but I'm positive you've experienced it. From the Greek akedos it described those who didn't care enough to bury the dead on the battlefield; their defeat drained them of zeal and passion. Acedia prompts dangerous lethargy, stubborn sadness, world weariness, restless boredom, and cynicism. It is morphine to our spirits, squelching joy from life. Even God is no longer viewed as good.
It's an irony that there is so much creative energy bursting forth around acedia, often defined as sloth, torpor and lassitude. In the fall, 2008, two of us published books which explore acedia. On the day I returned from England, having lectured on acedia (accidie) at the British Psychological Association, Kathleen Norris presented an evening lecture on her latest book, Acedia & me, at the National Cathedral, Washington, DC. It took Norris 20 years to produce her book on acedia; it took me 30 years to publish mine. I wanted to hear her wisdom on the subject, but exhaustion won--my ticket was never redeemed; it is my bookmark in her book.
Norris, the poet, has brilliantly crafted an accidic lair. She weaves a web with strands from her marriage, her writing journey, and her pilgrimage as a Benedictine Oblate. So poetically has she crafted this lair that I felt acedia's tentacles tightening around my soul long before my mind grasped this elusive concept, known only by the astute through the ages. So elusive is acedia that it pervades our current culture but is seldom identified by name.
Slogging through Norris's accidic web, I was sucked back into its clutches: I felt bored, tediously bored; I felt lethargic, tepid, like warm milk at midday; I wanted to escape the confining and cramped cell of this book; I enviously wanted to be elsewhere reading an exciting book; I felt cynical--angry, even bitter. "This book is drudgery--too much work--I don't want to care about this book and this subject; Norris doesn't want a relationship with me--she doesn't care about me--I don't care either."
All are symptoms of acedia, one of the seven deadly sins of classical Christianity and also one of Ian Fleming's deadlier sins of our day portrayed in both James Bond and his adversaries in the 007 tales. Norris is a seductress. Damn her! I wanted to abandon and ban this book...but no--I read it, many sections more than once. It was like looking at my own soul's journey from the bottom side of the toilet seat. And then, she suggests I read the Psalms--meditatively--to heal my soul.
CAUTION! This book is only for the serious soul pilgrim. CAUTION! To read Norris's book requires extreme patience and persistence. Countless paragraphs I read twice or more. Don't miss the last chapter--a 43 page compendium of quotes on acedia from authors down through the ages. To be read often--with humble patience and disciplined persistence.
Reviewed by Benjamin Pratt, author of Ian Fleming's Seven Deadlier Sins and 007's Moral Compass.


 
 
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